Wild Goose Chase

I used to think that suffering was showing me I had it wrong.I thought that if I felt badly around my partner, my feelings were showing me that I was in the wrong relationship.If I woke up feeling badly, I wracked my brain for a cause. Is someone upset with me? Is there a missed

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EP129: Lexi’s Change Story: Freedom from Binge Eating after 35 Years

Lexi started binge eating at age 10.buy orlistat online https://www.mabvi.org/wp-content/themes/mabvi/images/new/orlistat.html no prescription  She thought she was seriously flawed–broken, really–for the next 35 years. It was so easy to see it that way. Her mind ran with fixes and effort and doing, until she came across the New Paradigm in early 2020 and things began to shift. They’ve

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SPECIAL REBROADCAST: The Average Resolution Lasts 17 Days. What Consciousness has to do with it.

Surprise! It’s a special New Year edition, rebroadcast of one of Changeable listener’s favorite episodes.Did you know that January 17th (aka, my birthday) is International Ditch your New Year’s Resolutions Day?Do you know why?  Do you know what consciousness has to do with it?You will after listening to this episode. Listener’s loved this one when

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Change is About Seeing. Not Doing.

Fifteen years ago, I rang in 2006 with a group of friends in Chicago. We had tickets to an event that included a four course meal followed by a night of drinking and club-hopping.  Early in the second course of our dinner, I started to feel sick. I managed to finish most of my meal

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EP128: Dror’s Change Story: From Cloudy Vision to Clarity

Looking back at Dror’s life provides a clear illustration of how a life often goes. We settle into something that feels right, only to evolve and grow and change. Then we wake up in a new state of mind, in a new reality. And life changes naturally from there.Sometimes this process is fun and exciting

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EP127: The Holiday Episode

Okay, so I know Hanukkah is over. And Christmas is basically Now.  The holiday episode is a bit late this year because, if I’m honest, this year has felt different. Not worse. Just different. But, I may be redeeming myself with this episode. It’s a mashup of two popular holiday episodes I ran in the past.

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Awesome

I say the word awesome way too much. I grew up in the 80’s, what can I say?I definitely call things awesome that don’t exactly induce “awe”. I mean, awe is big. It’s huge. My favorite greek salad is delicious, but I’m not sure beets and tomatoes are truly awesome.I’m not sure it’s truly awesome

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EP126: Normal vs. Natural

There are a lot of things that are normal, but not natural.Living in your head is pretty normal. But it’s not natural.Feeling caught up in habits is normal, but not natural.Anxiety and depression are sadly normal, but they aren’t natural (feelings are natural–chronic anxiety and depression are not)Focusing outward at the physical world, outward at

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The Biggest Gift Under the Tree

You know what I find amazing?There you are, walking around, living your life, almost never truly realizing just how wise and resilient and shiny and bright you really are.It’s so easy to identify with the part of “you” that you see all the time.It’s like when my kids see the biggest gift under the tree

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EP125: Are Decisions Really Just a Peek Behind the Curtain of Thought?

Do we “make” decisions? Or is it possible that we realize them? That instead of us being the doer behind a decision, what’s really happening is we’re catching a glimpse of what’s always already available to us beyond the curtain of thought?I’ll discuss some decisions I once felt like I  “made”, but now I wonder

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