Changeable is about the ironic way change works. Ironic, because the less we push, manipulate, and try to make change happen, the more we see that change is always already happening. Change is unavoidable. We simply miss it when we’re lost in our heads in our efforts. Why does it work this way? Isn’t it
The murder of George Floyd has rocked the world. In many ways, it’s been rocking my world and my friend Barb’s world too. In this episode, we stumble through trying to articulate what we’ve been seeing in the past couple weeks. We share our own personal insights and what this has shown each of us
The human brain hasn’t changed much in the past 200,000 years. But–you may have noticed–the world has changed a lot since then. What this means is that there are many things your brain does that were necessary and adaptive in the world of 200,000 years ago, but that are unnecessary and irrelevant today. Fear, for
Del grew up in some unusual circumstances and her mind did all that it could to protect her. It did all that it could to heal the hurts of the past, as minds do. As a result, Del was caught up in narcissistic relationships and codependency for many years. Now, she experiences things very, very
Our experience is so much simpler than our minds will ever let us know. It’s so much simpler than our minds are even capable of knowing. When people feel badly, they ask things like: “What am I missing?” “Do I just need to see this more deeply?” “Maybe I don’t really get it?” “Should I
In the past few months, Mary has been diagnosed with skin cancer and Coronavirus. Her young son also had the virus. Oh, and she had her very first panic attack recently. All of these things have shown her something amazing. They have helped her see that she is okay. Now. Always. No matter what is
There is no such thing as a mean or evil person. Or a kind person, a funny person, a clumsy person. There are just people–always healthy, always pure, always full of love and connection at their core (yes, even Hitler. Even serial killers), who do unkind things, and also some kind things. No different than
Giles’ mum died last month…just a couple weeks before this conversation was recorded. A few days after our conversation, Giles and his sister held an online funeral for his mum in the midst of the lockdown. His experience of grief has been amazing to watch. Giles’ experience of his mother’s death has been night and
Planning + Panicking = Planicking Are you doing it? In this episode, we look at what happens when we plan + panic = planick. But mostly, we look at how incredibly, unbelievably resilient humans are. How amazing it is that we’re making it through each day as well as we are. How we’re doing perhaps
Holly thought weight issues were encoded in her DNA. She was a person with food issues, period. There was no other possibility in her mind. She was born with food issues just like she was born with blue eyes. It was her cross to bear. Finding new ways to bear that cross was as good
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